Christmas is here again and you might be wondering, "What can I gift my partner to make them feel special?" Well, it's true what they say: it's the thought that counts! So, to prepare yourself for holiday shopping, take a gander at my sexpert guide to buying intimate Christmas gifts.

We'll discuss the 5 Gift Rule, how to give a romantic gift that'll make your partner swoon, and the top 20 intimate gifts to get your lover for Christmas! 

How Do I Give A Romantic Gift?

If you're shopping for your partner or someone with whom you're emotionally or physically intimate, you'll want to find a gift that sweeps them off their feet and makes them blush! To do this, think about what makes you so compatible as lovers, and choose gifts that reflect that. Wrap it all up in a thoughtful way, and get ready for a very romantic holiday. 

If you're shopping for a sexually intimate partner, get creative with giving the gift of pleasure. Sex toys and other adult products can be the best Christmas gifts, so take some time to find out which pleasure products your partner might like to explore before you start shopping!

Whatever you choose to gift your lover for the holidays, make sure you present it in a caring and thoughtful way. This could mean including a handwritten note, wrapping it in their favorite color, or hiding it in a place where you know they'll find it. Basically, be romantic!

What Is The 5 Gift Rule for Christmas?

Shoppers looking for inspiration in the gifting department might want to consider something called the 5 gift rule. The idea here is to gift your loved one with five things: something they want, something they need, something they wear, something they read, and something they experience. This way, you're covering all your romantic bases and setting yourselves up for a warm and cozy holiday.

And wouldn't ya' know it... I've listed 20 intimate gifts below, including plenty of wants, needs, good reads, and some very pleasurable experiences. So, without further ado, let's look at the top 20 intimate Christmas gifts!

Top 20 Intimate Christmas Gifts

Outdo yourself this year by surprising your lover with one of these intimate Christmas gifts!

1. Slow Sex Shimmer Dry Oil

Looking for a romantic bath and body gift that isn't massage oil or bubble bath? This super sexy and shimmery bedroom accessory will leave your lover's skin feeling moisturized and looking good enough to eat.

2. We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition Set 

Orgasms for two, anybody? This special edition set is designed specifically for a date night in with your lover. Oh, and it's app-controlled, which means you or your partner can control it from a distance...

3. Lora DiCarlo Drift Warming Bullet

Warm things up (literally) with this handheld bullet vibrator. Its ergonomic shape hits all the right spots, while its warming settings enhance circulation and promote arousal. This makes an excellent gift to give on a cold Winter night!

4. Wicked Aqua Salted Caramel Lube

This tasty salted caramel lube is festively flavored, and impeccably smooth. If you're looking for a way to tell your partner you want to add something yummy to playtime, this is a subtle but effective way to do it. 

5. Pretty Plugs Swarovski Plug

This crystal embellished butt plug looks more like jewelry than a sex toy, and I'm here for it. Plus, it's made from stainless steel, making it a great toy for temperature play! Cool it down or warm it up with water to enjoy different sensations with your partner. 

6.  The Book of Massage by Lucinda Lidell

Let's face it: unless you're a trained massage therapist, you might need a little help giving your partner the perfect massage. That's where this book on massage technique comes into play. You and your partner can read it together, and practice on each other!

7. Fun Factory Blow & Glow Kit

This specialty gift box is all about oral pleasure! It includes toys for penis and vulva owners alike, as well as a scented candle, scrunchy, and instructional videos for making the most of your new goodies.

8. Quickie Silicone Cuffs

If you and your partner have been curious to try restraints in the bedroom, these Quickie Cuffs are perfect for beginners. You can slip them on and off so easily! No deep knowledge of rope tying required.

9. Lelo Indulge Me Pleasure Set

This perfect pleasure set is meant to be gifted to someone special... like, very special. It includes a silk blindfold, a tantalizing feather teaser, and one of the brand's most popular vibrators for couples. Think of it as a super sexy care package for couples! 

10. Coochy Botanical Blast Body Oil Mist 

This oh-so-sexy body oil mist is made in the US from high quality, natural ingredients that'll leave your skin hydrated and smooth. Plus, it smells so damn good. 

11. Le Wand Chrome Bullet

If you're shopping for a Christmas gift that's intimate, travel-friendly, and super pretty, look no further. This petite and powerful bullet is sure to put a smile on your lover's face. 

12. Belou Rose Gold Flutter Ring 

On the fifth day of Christmas, my true love gave to me... a vibrating gold ring! This pleasure product is as pretty as it is stimulating, making it a perfect gift for the special someone in your life. And yes, you can wear this toy on your finger.

13. Vampire Studded Leather Gloves

Folks looking to combine fashion and fetish this holiday season should check out these studded leather gloves. They're perfect for couples looking to explore sensation play and kink, and can be used as gently as you like. 

14. Voodoo Flower Power Rose Toy 

There's a good chance your partner has already heard about this social media famous sex toy, so why not show them what all the hype is about? Trust me, it's well-earned. Not to mention, it's pretty floral design adds a romantic element to this gift!

15. Vush Soft Toy Storage Case

If you're gifting your lover a pleasure product this holiday season, it's a good idea to include a storage case in order to protect the integrity of the toy. This pink, plush storage case is super soft, and looks pretty inconspicuous too!  

16. Urban Tantra by Barbara Carrellas 

If you're following the 5 gift Christmas rule, this book is a great and intimate read. Crack this book open by the fireplace, and learn about tantric orgasm with your lover. Then, start practicing! 

17. Intimate Earth Fresh Strawberries Glide

Looking for a tasty stocking stuffer that isn't candy? This strawberry flavored lube makes the perfect sensual topping on any body part. It's body-safe, 100% vegan, and smells like fresh fruit. Yummy.

18. Mimi Rhinestone Skin Jewelry

Most folks looking to check off the "something to wear" part of the 5 Gift Rule will opt for the lingerie, which is a great idea if you're shopping for your lover! But if lingerie isn't their thing, or you want to accessorize a bit, this rhinestone skin jewelry adds the perfect touch.

19. Bijoux Pearl and Bead Nipple Clamps

These fancy clamps are elegant and surprisingly comfortable! If you're shopping for jewelry that only you and your lover can see, this pretty set is the perfect pair. 

20. Sliquid Balance Soak

Looking for a way to spoil your partner? Make them feel totally relaxed with this therapeutic soak from Sliquid. There's just something about a bubble bath that's romantic, sensual, and luxurious all at the same time.