Do you know where the clitoris is? Are you sure about that?

They say the ability to find the clit is indicative of sexual skill, and I’m not here to argue that. But the truth is, asking someone if they know how to find it is a trick question, because it’s not actually located in one place.

When it comes to the clit, there is much more than meets the eye. But don’t worry — I’m here to demystify the clitoris and show you exactly where it is. Every single part of it.  

Most Of Your Clitoris Is Invisible 

When you think of the clitoris, you probably conjure up an image of a pea-sized button that feels great when you rub it. Well, that’s just the external part of the clitoris known as the glans clitoris, and there’s a lot more going on internally. In fact, the majority of the clitoris isn’t visible at all — but that doesn’t mean it can’t be stimulated.

Don’t believe me? Take a look at the diagram below! 

Your internal clitoral network plays a major role in arousal thanks to all the erectile tissue that swells, expands, and heightens sensation and lubrication when stimulated. Simply put, your clit is like an iceberg, and the part you can see is merely the tip.

The next time someone asks if you know where to find it, drop some knowledge on them with a deliciously detailed description of clitoral anatomy (bonus points if they want a hands-on tutorial!). 

More: The Lelo Sona 2 is a great example of a toy designed to target the entire clitoris. Check out my Lelo Sona 2 review! 

It’s A Lot Like A Penis 

Now you know that the clitoris is much larger than a pea, but did you also know that it can get up to 300% bigger when engorged? Yup! When stimulated, your entire clitoral network swells and increases blood flow until every inch of your vulva is bigger, juicier, and fully erect.

Remind you of anything?

If this sounds a lot like what happens when a penis is aroused, that’s because it is. The penis and clitoris are very anatomically similar, and can both grow quite a bit when properly inspired. And while the erect penis is often bigger than the erect clitoris, the clit has many more nerve endings. 

Your G-Spot Is Part of Your Clitoris 

If you think the G-spot and clitoris are two different things, I’ve got news for you.

While it’s true that the G-spot refers to a very special place inside the vagina that can make your toes curl at the slightest touch, it’s still very much a part of your clitoral network. That’s why it’s important to remember that the G-spot isn’t one spot, nor is the clitoris one little button. Rather, your internal and external clitoris work together in happy unison.

Oh, and by the way: when you stimulate the head of your clit and your G-spot at the same time, it often results in what’s known as a blended orgasm (which can make things very wet, very fast). Intrigued? Check out the best toys for combining internal and external stimulation!

Its Sole Purpose Is Pleasure 

One of my favorite facts about the clitoris is that it’s the only body part that exists strictly for pleasure. That’s right — the clitoris has one job, and that's to bring you joy. If you haven’t thanked your clit today, now is a great time. 

That said, the clitoris is multi-purpose in a different sense. Stimulating it has been known to relieve anxiety, alleviate period pain, get rid of headaches, and many other fabulous perks. It’s truly amazing what these little pleasure centers can do.

Read: 6 Reasons Why You Should Masturbate

No Two Clits Are The Same 

Finally, let us revel in the fact that each and every clitoris is wholly unique. They vary in size, shape, color, texture, sensitivity… everything. That’s why every clit responds to pleasure differently.

Now, with your newfound knowledge of the clit, remember that there’s no one right way to stimulate it. Take your time exploring the sensations that feel right for you and your partner, and allow Delicto to help along the way! 

Speaking of which, I’ve compiled a list of the best clitoral vibrators. Enjoy!