
6 Reasons Why You Should Masturbate
We all know masturbation feels somewhere between good and mind-blowing, depending on the day. Masturbation is so fun it’s a near-universal activity, but what goes on behind the scenes when you do it? Does it have any benefits beyond the obvious physical thrills?
Let’s take a closer look at the mechanics of masturbation and find out what happens under the hood when you drive solo.
Your Imagination Lights up
You’re not, um, imagining it. When you tuck yourself in with a sex toy and get busy, your brain goes into full fantasy mode. Studies of arousal and orgasm prove that the brain is uniquely activated during masturbation. The studies involved only women, but there’s no reason to think all genders don’t respond the same way.
What did the studies show, exactly? When arousal is stimulated by another person during partnered play, the creative, thinking part of your brain dials down. But the creative part of your brain goes into overdrive when you’re alone. That means your mind (yes, your spank bank) churns out vivid ideas and images during masturbation to help bring exciting scenarios to life.
The next time you get off on a great fantasy during solo time, don’t forget to thank your prefrontal cortex!
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Your Pain Threshold Rises
If you’ve ever noticed that being rough with yourself feels oddly pleasurable when you’re masturbating, here’s why: arousal boosts your pain threshold. Nipple twisting, spanking, and rough handling of normally very sensitive areas can feel just right when you’re getting close to climax.
According to research of the body's pain response, your ability to tolerate pain rises as much as 75% during masturbation and orgasm. What’s responsible? Serotonin, AKA the happy chemical, which helps cells communicate and has powerful effects all over the body. Arousal and orgasms spur the release of serotonin, which makes it easier to tolerate pain of all kinds.
If you’re thinking that masturbation sounds like a great natural painkiller, you’re on to something! Playing solo can help period cramps and headaches, and is a great way to soothe your body whenever you feel achy or out of sorts.
You Release Happiness and Love Hormones
All the warm and fuzzy chemicals that get released during partner sex are pumped out in spades when you masturbate. Whether they help you bond with yourself or just feel especially great about that epic orgasm you experienced, oxytocin, dopamine, and other I-love-everybody-and-everything substances flood your bloodstream when you play solo.
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From prolactin to adrenaline, the scientific verdict is in: the chemicals that flow when you masturbate are a who’s who of things that make you feel good. Some of the benefits include:
You Boost Your Immune System
Pleasuring yourself comes with some nice antiviral perks! One study showed that masturbation increases the number of killer and white blood cells, making it easier for your body to fight off everything from colds to infections. How? Orgasm helps to regulate cortisol, a hormone that can reduce your immunity if you’re under chronic stress.
And don’t forget — orgasming can also help you sleep, another key to a strong immune system!
You Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor
Masturbation gets the blood pumping to your pelvic region, bringing oxygen to those all-important internal tissues. Arousal and orgasm also cause pelvic muscles to contract, making them stronger and more toned. The stronger and more toned your pelvic floor, also known as Kegel, muscles are, the more pleasurable masturbation feels, and (naturally), the more you want to play solo. That leads to healthier pelvic muscles, which lead to…you get the picture!
Healthier pelvic floor muscles are also associated with better bladder and anal control as you get older, giving older folks another excellent reason to masturbate.
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Your Vagina And Prostate Clean House
Masturbation activates the toxin-removal system of both the vagina and prostate. Yes, there really is such a thing! When you’re aroused, the cervix opens and cervical fluid is flushed out, bringing any pesky bacteria with it. This can help prevent urinary tract infections and other bacterial build-up, keeping the cervix and vagina in tip-top shape.
There’s also an interesting link between masturbation and a lowered risk of prostate cancer. Frequent ejaculation might help to expel toxins from the prostate, keeping it healthier over the long term. Ejaculating when you’re older seems to be especially helpful for your prostate, making masturbating a healthy way to spend solo time no matter what your age! Good to know for those of us (*cough*) who’ve been at it on the daily since the 70s.
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Masturbation FAQs
What is edging? Edging involves masturbating almost to the point of orgasm and staying on the brink of climax as long as you can. Edging is not only pleasurable, it can intensify sexual sensations and help you have more control over orgasm during sex with a partner. Edging is a great way to learn how your body responds to different stimulation and discover what feels best to you.
To practice edging, bring yourself to the edge of a climax, then change the intensity. Stop or slow down, and let the urge to climax pass before you start start again. Breathe through the desire and focus your mind away from the sensations in your body.
As you repeat the process, pay attention to the signals that an orgasm is close. Does your heart speed up? Do you breathe faster? Your muscles might tighten or your arms and legs shake. Paying attention to these cues can help you slow down and control your orgasm, so you can climax when you want to.
Can masturbating with a toy desensitize me? In a word, no! This is a common rumor, but vibrators and other toys do not harm your nerves or make them less sensitive. Read more: Can My Vibrator Desensitize Me?
Final Thoughts
Masturbation isn’t just relaxing and pleasurable, it has a host of positive effects on your mind and body. If you’re new to masturbating, want to enjoy it more, or are looking for ways to keep an already-great solo pleasure routine exciting, feel free to reach out for personalized recommendations! Just email us at info@delicto.com, or DM us on Instagram or TikTok. We’re always happy to help!