How To Have A Blended Orgasm
Ever heard of dual stimulation sex toys? Not sure what they are or what they do?
I'll give you a hint: these devices deliver supercharged sensations that put them in a class of their own. In my (very extensive) experience, dual stimulation toys are not only amazingly pleasurable, they are the way to experience blended orgasms.
Come along as I discuss how dual stimulation toys work their magic and reveal which ones I can't get enough of!
What are Dual Stimulation Sex Toys?
Dual-stimulation sex toys, also known as rabbit-style toys, stimulate the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously, delivering twice the sensation with a single device. By stimulating both the external and internal nerves, dual stimulation can heighten arousal and boost the chances of a blended orgasm.
Classic rabbit vibes have small rabbit ear-shaped extensions that stimulate the clitoris, while others have rounded nub-like stimulators. Though each dual-stimulation toy has its own unique features, all are designed to deliver simultaneous internal and external stimulation.
How Dual Stimulation Sex Toys Work
Dual-stimulation sex toys use dual motor technology and in essence, act as two toys in one. One motor targets the G-spot while the other focuses on clitoral stimulation. The motors of many dual stimulators have their own settings and can be operated independently.
You can typically control the intensity for each part of the toy separately. This allows you to amp on the speed on either the clitoris or G-spot, keep the stimulation at the same level, or use only one stimulator at a time. That's the beauty of dual stimulation toys: how you enjoy them is entirely up to you.
Different Types of Dual Stimulation Sex Toys
Dual stimulation toys may use vibration for both the clitoris and G-spot, or use air pulses for external stimulation. An air pulse clitoral stimulator utilizes puffs of air rather than vibration. These toys are typically held just above the clitoris, rather than directly against it as vibrators are.
The combination of clitoral air pressure and G-spot vibration can create deep, penetrating sensations that intensify climax and make it last longer.
Dual stimulation toys can use more than vibration to stimulate the G-spot. Some have an internal arm that thrusts or pulses, while others rotate or "wave." These toys deliver not just two types of stimulation, but three!
How To Use A Dual Stimulation Toy
Just add lube
Lube is essential for solo sessions and partnered play, no matter what kind of toys you enjoy. Lube helps to reduce friction and maximize glide, which boosts pleasure and increases your chance of experiencing a blended orgasm. If you have a silicone toy, choose a water-based, hybrid, or oil-based lube instead of a silicone-based lube, which can damage silicone toys.
Learn: How do I choose the right lube?
Take your time
If you've never used a rabbit-style toy, give yourself time to explore. Try using the toy on other parts of your body, like your stomach, arms, or legs to get a sense of how it works and feels before you use it on your clitoris and G-spot.
Get creative
It can feel unusual to experience stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot at the same time. Allow yourself to use one part of the toy until you get used to the sensation, then try both parts at once. You might prefer gentler or stronger settings with one part of the toy, or enjoy using both at high intensity. Don't rush pleasure and let your body lead the way.
Try different positions
Some of us like using dual stimulation toys on our backs, while others prefer standing or lying on our sides. Sometimes I like using my rabbit toy while on my knees, a position that allows me to move my hips and shift my legs as needed. Whichever position feels best is the right one for you!
Best Dual Stimulation Sex Toys AKA Best Rabbit Vibrators
With all the dual stimulation toys available, how to choose the perfect one for you? First, always look for body-safe materials like silicone and ABS plastic. Avoid toys made from porous PVC (which can also contain toxic chemicals) and TPE (TPE penis toys are okay!).
To help you get started, here are some of the dual stimulation toys I recommend most often. All are body-safe, tops in their category, and practically guaranteed to inspire lots of blended Os.
Best flexible dual stimulator
We-Vibe Nova Not sure how a dual stimulator will fit your body? Take a look at the We-Vibe Nova. This ultra-bendy dual vibrator is designed to offer a customized fit so you can enjoy its deep, rumbly vibrations no matter what your physical proportions. The Nova is also app-controlled and can be operated by a partner from anywhere in the world.
Learn more: Rumbly Vs. Buzzy Vibrators
Best air pressure dual stimulator
Womanizer Blend Looking for mind-blowing pleasure? The Blend is a staff-favorite for a reason. The perfect G-hugging curve meets the elite sensation of Womanizer's Pleasure Air Technology. 10/10 recommend!
Best triple stimulators
Femme Funn Pallina For something a little less classic and a lot more unique, check out the Pallina. It might look unusual, but trust me — it's one of the greatest toy inventions I've ever tried. With 3 forms of stimulation including vibrating, thumping, and 3 rotating balls created specifically for mind-blowing clitoral stimulation, this rabbit is a must-try.
Lelo Enigma Wave Lelo's boundary-breaking Enigma Wave stimulates the clitoris with air pressure and the G-spot with both vibration and an ultra-stimulating wave motion. This spectacular combo of sensations is designed to penetrate more of the clitoral network, resulting in mind-blowing pleasure as well as orgasms that last longer, feel deeper, and frankly ruin you for any other sex toy.
Best budget dual stimulator
ROMP Reverb I'd go for the Reverb just for its juicy colors and maneuverable size, but those are only two of its many pleasurable benefits. Perks include 10 vibe modes, 10 air pressure modes, and waterproof construction. The Reverb is also surprisingly affordable, making it my top budget-friendly pick.
Best quiet dual stimulator
Lelo Ina 3 Who says quiet and strong are mutually exclusive? The Ina 3 from Lelo delivers all the power of a premium dual stimulator in a super-discreet package. Beware though: the girthy stimulator, flexible clitoral vibrator, and wide range of settings might make it hard to put this toy down.
For all the details, watch my complete Lelo Ina 3 review
Best rabbit ear dual stimulator
Femme Funn Turbo Rabbit If you're a sucker for classic sex toy design, the Turbo Rabbit from could be right up your alley. Fluttering rabbit ears plus some seriously modern upgrades (like full 360-degree rotation!) will blow the doors off your G-spot.